Yes, to be honest I tend to use hashtags rather than the local feed.
So I guess the main thing is to join a server whose rules you're
comfortable with.
I feel this is key.
I feel fosstodon aligns well.
But why not have the bitfolk account as a single user account? Similar to your personal account.
Alternatively, there is managed services which is the recommended way if you just need to add your domain to it. I believe it costs the same or less than the Twitter blue badge.
Regards,
Andres